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The
Comfortably Sad
By
Margaret Black
Unaccustomed
Earth
By
Jhumpa Lahiri
Knopf, 333 pages, $25
Thank heaven Jhumpa Lahiri has gone back to short stories!
Although the ones in her new book, Unaccustomed Earth,
are not as short and crisp as those in her debut volume, Interpreter
of Maladies, each accomplishes the same close illumination
of one or two people intertwined in a single dynamic. While
her novel, The Namesake, has many fine individual scenes,
the author is imprisoned within one family; she makes their
collective lives incorporate so many emblematic immigrant
situations that what begins as plot increasingly unravels
into mere strands of incident.
With Unaccustomed Earth, Lahiri has taken artistic
possession of the cultural and emotional experiences of one
particular set of immigrants: well-educated young men who
have come to this country for graduate studies, enter the
American workforce as professionals, and achieve significant
wealth, or at least a solidly middle-class existence that
easily outstrips that of many fellow Americans. Lahiri writes
specifically about Bengalis, whose rich Indian culture, distinct
family and social practices, and amazing food, give spice
and piquancy to all their problems adjusting to American life.
The young man arrives with a wife—theirs is always an arranged
marriage and usually the wedding has just occurred—who, regardless
of her education and social class at home, must try to perform
her traditional duties of cooking, housekeeping, and caring
for children in a totally alien, sometimes hostile, usually
indifferent, environment. Lahiri does a splendid job of portraying
such women learning to live this new life. But she truly excels
when she depicts the second generation, firmly American young
people on the surface, who are often propelled, even swamped,
by powerful undercurrents from their Bengali heritage.
This new collection deals with difficult situations that are
possible in any ethnic setting, but here configured to fit
a Bengali heritage. In “Only Goodness,” Lahiri captures the
anguish of a sister dealing with her beloved younger brother
who gradually becomes an alcoholic, at first in secret, but
eventually openly and with increasing destruction. Although
many of the details (the mother’s stolen gold jewelry) come
immediately from the Bengali context, the brother’s descent
into total preoccupation with the next drink and his sister’s
futile attempts to change him speak volumes to anyone, from
any culture, who has been involved with an alcoholic.
Similarly, “Unaccustomed Earth” explores a young Bengali-American
woman’s conflicting desires and obligations with regard to
her widowed father. She fails to realize that her father has
moved along in his life, changed his cultural expectations,
and made his own plans for his future. The new mother has
finally begun to see some benefits in the old Bengali ways,
and finds herself wanting her father to stay with her and
her little boy, who adores his grandfather. But her father
has created a different existence and has no desire to become
entangled again in family life.
Two stories, “Hell-Heaven” and “Nobody’s Business,” explore
love relationships that are very culture-specific in their
particulars, but their obsessiveness and the personal havoc
they cause are universal. “Hell-Heaven” is especially powerful
for both the tremendous happiness the love confers and the
vast desperation that follows its loss.
The final three stories are linked by their narrators, Hema
and Kaushik, who tell each other about events in their lives.
Hema’s two tales involve her feelings about Kaushik, while
Kaushik’s examines his reaction to his father’s second marriage.
Kaushik’s parents helped Hema’s parents adjust when they first
came to America. Much later, Kaushik’s parents live for several
months with Hema’s family after they have been away in India
for seven years. This progressively uneasy and prolonged visit,
when Hema is 13 and Kaushik is 16, erodes the friendship between
the parents, and only Hema learns, at the end of their stay,
that Kaushik’s mother is dying. One of the most striking revelations
comes with the understanding that Kaushik’s mother wanted
to return to America because she doesn’t want to die within
the suffocating embrace of her extended Bengali family. Hema
and Kaushik meet again in Rome, nearly 25 years later, when
Hema is taking one last vacation before making a very late,
essentially “arranged” marriage with a Bengali she does not
love. They have an affair, but part ways. Because Hema and
Kaushik have been so little involved in each other’s lives,
the stories never threaten to become a novel, which works
much better than the sometimes-forced connections in Lahiri’s
The Namesake.
If there is one chilling aspect to these stories, it is the
consistent lack of warm compassion. Older couples in arranged
marriages, where a great gulf once separated husbands and
wives, can become companionable, even fond and thoughtful.
But obligatory affection, more than spontaneous warmth, seems
about as good as it gets. And sometimes the characters are
appallingly self-absorbed. Kaushik’s love for his dead mother
doesn’t excuse the sudden and vicious turnaround in his behavior
toward his young stepsisters when they find the photographs
of his mother. And while you can accept that he might well
be angry at his father’s remarriage when it first happens,
eventually you just wish Kaushik would grow up and think about
someone else occasionally.
Lahiri’s portraits of life among financially comfortable,
even rich, immigrants brings alive an often unacknowledged
element in the American immigrant experience. With globalization,
we have not only Emma Lazarus’s “wretched refuse,” but also
technical and professional immigrants and now significant
numbers of investors, entrepreneurs, and financiers. Many
have homes in several countries and move freely among cultures.
But this also means that no actual place is home. It is here
that Lahiri’s stories make an additional contribution, for
she captures precisely the muted sadness that such deracination
can generate.
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