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One Last Time

by Dan Savage October 22, 2015

  I’m a straight guy, married for 16 years, kids in school. My wife cannot find a way to be intimate with me. We’ve had therapy individually and together. I nearly divorced her, but we decided ...

Savage Love – 2/24/2011

by Dan Savage February 23, 2011

I am 50 and a lesbian. I have had a pretty active sex life for the last 30 years, including a couple of long-term relationships. For the last three years, I’ve been with a woman ...

Savage Love – 2/10/2011

by Dan Savage February 9, 2011

I’ve written before, but I didn’t hear back from you—probably because my e-mail didn’t contain flogging or santorum or whatever. But I won’t be ignored, Dan. I’m a 32-year-old female. Second marriage, two kids: one kid ...

Savage Love – 2/3/2011

by Dan Savage February 2, 2011

I read your column every week, mostly out of abstract interest. My thoughts reading your advice are usually some variation on “Wow, that’s a lot of work to do, just to have a sex life.” ...

Savage Love – 1/27/2011

by Dan Savage January 26, 2011

I’m from the other side of the country, but I’m sitting in my lover’s San Francisco apartment wondering what I’m doing. I flew out here to spend five glorious days with her. We connect sexually ...

Savage Love – 1/13/2011

by Dan Savage January 12, 2011

Evelyn Salt is an uber patriot, I thought, watching the eponymous film the other night. She is such a patriot that she will kill and kill and kick and kill some more. Such a patriot ...